Martha,
There is nothing better than real slate which if from a reputable source, detailed and installed correctly, can last 150 years. The imitation slates or small slate tiles that are used as mere cladding over a membrane just cannot replace the real thing and while I have no experience with those systems, it would seem that at best, they would last a fraction of the years that a real slate roof would endure. Is there a structural concern prohibiting the use of real slate on your project? If it's a small, simple roof design, a real slate roof can be installed by a good, conscientious trades person who has experience with other roofing systems such as wood or metal. If you've not seen or read the book, I would encourage you to look at
The Slate Roof Bible, by Joseph Jenkins who provides great information on the use of real slate and lots of details as well as the history of the material, tools of the trade and some good humor mixed in. I love the material so much, I recently installed it myself with the help of a carpenter on a garage that we designed and constructed. It can be seen at the following link, just scroll down to the bottom of the web page:
http://www.landmarkconsulting.net/services/ Good luck with your project!
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Jack Alvarez AIA
Partner
Landmark Consulting, LLC
Albany NY
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