Hello Gloria,
Well, it's not a simple question because there are so many variables and there is no easy answer. I use both and it depends on what you are talking about and what want to do with the device in question in order to determine which is "best" in a particular situation. By "tablet" I'm assuming you mean something like a Windows 7 tablet and not an Android tablet which is very similar to an iPad with similar abilities and limitations.
The most basic explanation I can give is that the iPad (as well as the Android tablet) is a good "consumption" device whereas a decent tablet computer running a real OS is a "creation" device. There are some areas of crossover but what I mean is this:
The iPad is great if you want to quickly browse the internet, look at a document, check the stock market, check the weather, make a call on Skype, check the news and so on but you hit a ceiling very quickly when you want to do more. It is also locked down so tightly by Apple that, even though you may have a lot of memory on it, you can't just plug it into your computer and use it as a temporary storage device if you want to without doing some gymnastics.
A good tablet computer however, like the Samsung Series 7 i5 running 64 bit Windows 7 pro that I also have, is an excellent, compact, media creation device. For example, I was in Zimbabwe recently, in the middle of nowhere, processing my photographs, by candlelight, in Lightroom on my Samsung 7 then uploading them to Facebook when I had access to wifi. Recently, I was on a flight to Wyoming and sat on it, working in SketchUp, on a bank I was designing, i.e. doing real work on my Samsung 7 tablet - can't do anything approaching this on an iPad or Android tablet at the moment.
I have used my iPad a number of times in meetings taking notes using Notability and Notes Plus and, although these apps work reasonably well, but they can't hold a candle to Microsoft OneNote on my Samsung 7 tablet. To take hand-written notes on an iPad you have to use a really clunky, capacitive pen (like the Bamboo pen available from Best Buy & elsewhere) but, my Samsung tablet computer, with an active Wacom digitizer built in and a very nice, fine pen, coupled with Microsoft OneNote, is vastly superior to the iPad when it comes to taking hand-written notes.
Another major advantage of my Samsung over my iPad is, of-course, it fully and easily integrates into my office network environment (all windows 7 based).
So, I have both and I use both and choose which one I want depending on the task at hand. Each blows the other out of the water in certain situations and your choice depends on what you want to do with it.
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Alan Roberts AIA
Principal
Eubanks Harris Roberts Craig Architects, Inc.
Tyler TX
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